
Men Behind the 8 Ball
Here I sit late in the evening on Tuesday night reminiscing about the night I had out with the girls. It was a birthday celebration and as usual when you get more than two women together. . .shit the number doesn't matter the truth is women cannot help but to discuss men. No matter what the original topic somehow we tie it back into the opposite sex.
But tonight (and over the last few months) as I listened I realized that when we talk about men it's mostly negative, but the majority of the reasons are not legitimate and based on some fear or insecurity we possess and therefore transfer to the opposite sex. Example, tonight one of my friends was being talked up by this gentleman that seemed quite nice, he asked for her number and she turned him down. When I asked why, she replied "he was too short and that makes me feel uncomfortable. . ." I looked at her sideways and said "you are not going to give him a chance because YOU are insecure about your height??" and she said "Yes". Yet she had been talking to us earlier about wanting to find a nice guy...
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Women love to say "there are no good men available". Granted good people, however you define that, are hard to find. Now are there men that are down and dirty scoundrels?? Sure, but I don't believe that the majority or even a large percentage of the population fit into that category. So then why do we speak of men as though they are all the same or simply self-sabotage for no reason? I am sure men do the same thing with unrealistic expectations, but being a woman I can honestly say that men have their work cut out for them and no wonder you never know what the hell we are talking about or how we arrive at judgment.
I myself have been on a "Mancation" for a while, not because I am bitter or have been hurt but simply because life has gotten in the way and I had to put romance on the back burner. I have had long term relationships, and one night stands, and as a friend once told me "you are only leasing someone's time, and you never know when that lease is up so just enjoy the ride". I took this advice to heart and have enjoyed myself along the way.
I have come to realize what I want, what others are willing to give (because people don't change) and what I am willing to accept. I try not to find fault in the men I have dated if things didn't work out, unless in the end they were not truthful with themselves or me and wasted our time. But even then I think people tend get wrapped up in the euphoria of someone new and the budding romance and "go along to get along" to only find out later they should have been up front with their needs from the beginning.
My check list is short and free of nonsensical characteristics; eventually I will sign another "lease", enjoy the company of a good man, and will savor the moment(s) we have together. Life is too short, so don't let your list, insecurities, or the opinions of others get in the way of finding the Yin to your Yang. . .corny I know but true :)
Cheers and Happy Holidays!
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I don't think he cares how old they are. He said when he was about 20 years old or so he changed his nieces diaper 3 times. (how sick he is 50 and he can remember from 30 years ago the exact times he changed his nieces diaper) He said, and. He said on he was wiping her front private too fast and hard and he his finger accidentally slipped straight into her vagina. He said his penis instantly got a hard on and a tingly exciting feeling. He said he thought it was normal cause he is a guy and she is a female. He said he had this urge for a naked girl so he hooked up with a prostitute and payed her in the car to play with her vagina but he said he did not have sex with her. Then he started the strip clubs 5 years before he ever met me. He said he could not believe the strip clubs allow you to play with their privates top/bottom and they take their underwear off. He said he could not stop and went almost 3-5 times a week after work for a 10 minute fondling during lap dances for decades. He said he tried to stop when we got married but found excuses to go ok my wife ragged on me so I deserve this. So i found his secret stripper phone recently and he went to sex addiction counseling and he admitted everything to me. He had a secret life. ADDICTS ALWAYS BLAME OTHER PEOPLE FOR THE REASON THEY ARE ADDICTS. LOOK AT THE ASSHOLE THAT COMMENTED HE WENT OUTSIDE TO LOOK FOR A RELATIONSHIP CAUSE THERE WAS NONE AT HOME. WHAT A DUMB FUCK COMMENT. MY HUSBAND WAS DOING THIS YEARS BEFORE HE MET ME. WHAT WAS HIS EXCUSE THEN? why didn't he get a normal relationship like a women from work. YA WHAT GOOD FATHER WOULD FONDLE A TEENAGE GIRL KNOWING THAT THEY OR NOT BE 18. HE IS NOT GOING TO GET FATHER OF THE YEAR AWARD. HE DOES NOT DESERVE ANY CUSTODY UNTIL HE GETS SERIOUS HELP CAUSE HE HAS BRAINWASHED EVERYONE HE IS FINE NOW WITH THE COUNSELING HE CONTINUES TO GET ONCE A WEEK, BUT JUST LAST MONTH HE LEFT A TEXT OPEN THAT PLACED HIM IN THE STRIP CLUBS, AND WAS MEETING THEM AGAIN WITH GIFTS. HE CAN NOT STOP. HE CAN FOOL THE JUDGE AND HIMSELF BUT HE CAN'T FOOL GOD. i asked questions about his suspicious behavior over the years and i would get slapped. he got arrested once for a felony on that. he fooled me nothing was going on and he said i was just paranoid. now the truth is out. i was not paranoid.

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